"The Top" Position

"The TOP" position, being pretty close to the missionary position, also named in Kama Sutra "Driving the nail home", makes it easy for the man approach it without having to withdraw his penis from his lover's vagina. That is why the lovers should perform "The top" position after the classical one in order to keep in contact their genitals.

Tantric masters recommend to the lovers to keep in contact their sexual organs during the intercourse, because in this way it is not interrupted the energetic exchange between lovers that is launch during the erotic act.

The woman should not be passive in this position. By holding the man's thighs she can press his pelvis on hers, helping him to penetrate her deeply.

As same as "Driving the nail home" position, "The top" position is not recommended for the beginners in the art of sexual continence because it favours the accumulation of the sexual energy in the genital area. That is why the man has to make slow motions and to focus his attention in the cardiac plexus in order to control the sexual energy and to avoid the ejaculation. This is recommended for woman, too.

VARIANT 1

Lying on her back, upheld and blocked by the man's thighs who penetrates her in a controlled press-up, the woman is massaged firmly on the sides, taking up the full length of the penis.

At the moment when he wants to feel more pleasure, he allows his weight to fall on her even more. In the same time the woman will feel him more intensely. "The top" position gives intense pleasure to both lovers and amplifies the sexual energy. This is why the beginners in the art of lovemaking with sexual continence wouldn't start the intercourse with it.

Both lovers have to concentrate their attention in the heart area in order to sublimate the sexual energy in more refined forms of energies. When the woman feels that her lover is get close to the climax she has to stop the man's movements and to press firmly with her thumb on the middle of the forehead. Thus, his attention will be removed from the genital area to forehead area, helping the rising of the sexual energy along the spine.

VARIANT 2

Lying on her back, upheld and blocked by the man's thighs, who penetrates her in a controlled press-up, the woman is massaged firmly on the sides, taking up the full length of the penis.

This position should be performed after the "The top" position in order to maintain in contact the sexual organs of the lovers.

At the moment when the man feels that he is getting close to the ejaculatory orgasm he has to stop his motions and remain still at least 30 seconds in order to avoid ejaculation.

As same as "The top" position, this position produces intense pleasure to both lovers and it favours the accumulation of the sexual energy in the genital area.

The lovers have to focus their attention in the middle of the forehead in order to sublimate the sexual energy at the level of the sixth chakra (AJNA CHAKRA).

Thus the lovers will increase their power of control over the sexual energy.

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